Posted by on Feb 19, 2010 in Relationships and Sex | 0 comments


I get an email the other day: I was sitting in a bar two nights ago and this very cute, somewhat drunk boy I was talking to invited me to his place to…listen to Eric Clapton. I bought him a drink but I didn’t take him up on the offer. What’s a cougar to do?

Ummm…take a pack of condoms everywhere you go. Seriously, what’s a cougar to not do. I’ve been doing a lot of thinking about this lately (hence the recent poll) and as far as I’m concerned, if you’re a cougar you have it all. You’re old enough to take care of yourself, and experienced enough to know exactly what you like in the sack. And the best part, you feel no pressure to get married or have kids because you’ve been there and done that. Relationships are suddenly not complicated because they don’t have to go anywhere, and there is a sea of eligible bachelors dying for a no-strings-attached rendezvous. Being a cougar is like getting to relive your twenties the way you always wanted to. So my advice to you: go ahead and be a slut. I’m so jealous.

p.s. more questions always welcome:)