by hannah
July 27th, 2011
Q. Dear Dr. Sex, when you’re feeling the 7-year itch in your long-term relationship, how can you bring the sizzle back into your sex life?
A. Feeling a little sluggish in the romance department Hannah? Well, you’re not alone. Almost every couple experiences a glitch in the sex department at one point or another, and there are a ton of reason why: work, infrequent sex, health ailments, family issues, sexual disorders, hormonal/physiological changes, financial struggles, difficulty reaching orgasm, mental health issues, the fall of Communism, you name it.
Now that we’ve come to terms with the inevitable, what can we do about it? One of the first steps in jumpstarting your sex life is stepping outside the box. Many folks are in a routine they feel stuck in, so pushing those boundaries is essential to changing the sexual script. Here are 5 sizzle suggestions to shake up your sex life and get the blood flowing back to your genitals:
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by hannah
December 10th, 2010
Q. Dear Dr. Sex, does an open relationship add spice in the bedroom, or is it a recipe for disaster?
A. What if I said it can be both? But you have to first define the terms and establish boundaries you can both handle.
An open relationship occurs when two or more people (I can’t forget my polyamorous comrades) consensually choose to have additional erotic relationships with others in addition to their main relationship. Maybe you decide it’s alright to have an outside email romance, filled with erotic chat and sexy stories to spice things up. Some people give the OK for Skype Sex or webcam play as a way to offer visual variety to their partners. Others allow cuddle parties, anonymous sex, intimate or emotional relationships, plutonic partners, one-night stands, non-penetrative BDSM, and, well, the list goes on… What’s most important though, is that everybody involved is on the same page.
Think you can handle an open relationship? Try this little exercise. Close your eyes. Imagine your partner getting physical or experiencing closeness with another person. Think about them conversing intimately, seductively undressing, massaging, performing oral, and then having intercourse. Get real specific and detailed when imagining this.
by hannah
August 6th, 2010
Q. Dear Dr. Sex, what are best sex positions for a woman if she wants to experience the Big O?
A. Ah…the infamous “Big O”. Many have had one, and many are still searching for their el Dorado.
As with most things sexual, orgasm involves a combination of things: How horny you are, how well you know your body, and how comfortable you are with sexual expression. And for women, there’s the external/internal factor.
The external pleasure girls out there favor their clitoris being stimulated, and one of the best positions out there for that is female superior (a.k.a. cowgirl). You’re on top, the man is on the bottom lying down, and you’re in the driver’s seat. You control the depth of penetration, speed, angle of penetration (lean forward, lean back, or sit higher or lower), and clitoral stimulation. You can touch your clitoris with your fingers or lean forward and grind your clitoris into his pelvic bone. A lot of us know the clitoris packs a punch with nerve endings (about 8,000), but most don’t realize the mons pubis (pelvic/pubic hair region) has the second most number of nerve endings in the female vulva…
