Posts Tagged ‘heartbreak’
by hannah
January 31st, 2012
In dealing with the life experiences of friends, lovers, ex-lovers, and my sometimes charmingly bitter self, I’ve found that nothing puts grey hairs on the head (and a grudge in the heart) quite like infidelity. Even the suspicion of infidelity can take your relationship from we-just-made-love-on-the-virgin-white-Nassau-sand to you-can-keep-your-stinking-engagement-ring.
There are a myriad of reasons why cheating happens, and it’s rarely “because I hate you so much and just want you to have a hopelessly miserable life” (unless you’re vindictively trying to get back at your ex…for cheating on you). Most of the time, the psychology behind cheating is much more complex than that. Often, the reason has little or nothing to do with the person afflicted. Yet this particular wrongdoing feels about as personal as personal gets.
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by hannah
January 11th, 2012
photo: 1×43’s Blog
If you didn’t do what Katy Perry did before the holidays you’re either selfish or on the fence, and definitely not one of the 73 percent that think you should have done it already, and while I understand, here are five reasons why it would have been better to break up with them before the holidays.
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by hannah
May 18th, 2011
On the subject of Arnie, and I’m not saying it was “right” what he did, but what if one woman was just not enough for all that testosterone? I mean, come on, the guy is pumped from weights and god only knows what kind of supplements, and what if right at that time in his life, his wife wasn’t giving it up? What if she was being stone cold in the sack? Or maybe she wasn’t, but he was going through some kind of mid-life crisis? We can’t always fight off our urges, because sometimes we just don’t want to. Sometimes we’ve just reached a breaking point, or we just want to feel some feeling we haven’t felt in too long, or we just don’t want to be responsible for twenty minutes. It’s just like the whole Hugh Grant with a prostitue thing. Yes, he was in a relationship with a rockin’ hot super model, but maybe deep down inside, his biggest fantasy was to just once be with a nasty, dirty prostitute. What’s wrong with that? Why do we always have to be upstanding in the face of society when human nature isn’t always?
