Posts Tagged ‘sex’

Things gone missing

by hannah

January 6th, 2012

thrill seeking junkie

This morning, I received this response in my inbox regarding Wednesday’s post from Dr. Sex:

That was the best advice I’ve read about ANYTHING, in a long fucking time!  Awesome and so, so, SO TRUE!

I do know this about myself.  My desire for women usually comes when I’m feeling unfulfilled with men, but I’m pretty darned sure it’s more about me.  Being with women makes me feel powerful in a different way than when I’m with men.  I know I’m made to get a man off, but to get a woman off requires more, a lot more.  I’m sure there’s deep-seated stuff there that I may never recognize, but at least now I know it’s more than just a sex thing.

After the Kink

by hannah

January 4th, 2012

blog-pretty-in-kinkphoto: Kiki de Montparnasse in W Magazine

Back in July, I asked Dr. Sex for ideas about spicing up a long-term relationship. He suggested everything from sex toys to kink. I responded with this, and made him dig a little deeper:

Q. Sex toys, kink, role play, all sound like the right stuff…but…what about the couple that has explored all the kink and porn their relationship can handle? What if they’ve already done it all; gone to the extreme, even had a threesome?

The Right Fill

by hannah

December 6th, 2011

the-right-fill

Q. The conversation was started last week, but I just want to be sure…does penis size have anything to do with female pleasure or orgasms? Is there any physiological benefit to having a larger penis, or is it all in our head?

A. Is it the size of the wand or the magic in it? Men have fought wars and lost their minds (and confidence) over this issue. But what is really needed? In the US, the average size for guys is about 6 inches, and there’s a reason for it. While a lot of men think a ten inch dong is what will rock women to new heights, that kind of instrument is mostly only good for locker room swagger.