Posts Tagged ‘what i learned’

What I Learned: Beer goggles can lead to failure and impending doom.

by hannah

January 27th, 2011

Nights of drunken debauchery don’t often lead to worthwhile, long term relationships. They most often lead to lusty nights, awkward mornings, phone numbers we don’t recognize, and people we consider “random” wanting to add us as “friends” on Facebook. I’m not saying it always turns out this way. I have had a handful of occasions where a crazy night of gallivanting lead to something a bit more meaningful than a fancy fuck. Though I think it’s safe to say that when your inhibitions are down and your judgment is impaired, don’t expect too much.

What I Learned: Keep the First Date Short.

by hannah

June 16th, 2010

The first date is more complex than it used to be. We used to meet people through friends, at work, or (eeek) at a bar, but at least we could put a face and first impression to the name, so we kinda knew what we were getting into on the first date. Nowadays, a lot of us meet online where the face may be the 10-years-younger version and the impression is veiled by non-expressive data transmissions, unless you consider the emoticon wholly accurate.

There’s a lot about first date etiquette that still rings true: Don’t talk about religion, politics, your latest bowel movement, that you don’t believe in showering daily, or how you really need to get knocked up before you turn 35 next year. Keep the conversation light; your hobbies, who you think should be the next American Idol, and don’t make the conversation all about you, you, YOU. But I think my girl Lauren is also onto something very key for the 21st Century first date: Keep it short. If you’ve never met them before, meet them for a cup of coffee or a drink. And drive yourself there, like she said, so that you can escape easily if you need to.

What I Learned: Run Away from Negative Ninnies!

by hannah

June 9th, 2010

You are so right Jaro! Run away from people that only see the glass half empty, only the dark clouds in the sky, and no light at the end of the tunnel. I say the same thing to all my friends: There are so many amazing, incredible people on this planet, don’t waste your time on those that bring you down.