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What I Learned: Beer goggles can lead to failure and impending doom.

hannah — Thu, 27 Jan 2011 22:15:06 +0000

Nights of drunken debauchery don't often lead to worthwhile, long term relationships. They most often lead to lusty nights, awkward mornings, phone numbers we don't recognize, and people we consider "random" wanting to add us as "friends" on Facebook. I'm not saying it always turns out this way. I have had a handful of occasions where a crazy night of gallivanting lead to something a bit more meaningful than a fancy fuck. Though I think it's safe to say that when your inhibitions are down and your judgment is impaired, don't expect too much.

What I Learned: Keep the First Date Short.

hannah — Wed, 16 Jun 2010 19:29:31 +0000

The first date is more complex than it used to be. We used to meet people through friends, at work, or (eeek) at a bar, but at least we could put a face and first impression to the name, so we kinda knew what we were getting into on the first date. Nowadays, a lot of us meet online where the face may be the 10-years-younger version and the impression is veiled by non-expressive data transmissions, unless you consider the emoticon wholly accurate. There's a lot about first date etiquette that still rings true: Don't talk about religion, politics, your latest bowel movement, that you don't believe in showering daily, or how you really need to get knocked up before you turn 35 next year. Keep the conversation light; your hobbies, who you think should be the next American Idol, and don't make the conversation all about you, you, YOU. But I think my girl Lauren is also onto something very key for the 21st Century first date: Keep it short. If you've never met them before, meet them for a cup of coffee or a drink. And drive yourself there, like she said, so that you can escape easily if you need to.

What I Learned: Run Away from Negative Ninnies!

hannah — Wed, 09 Jun 2010 19:24:16 +0000

You are so right Jaro! Run away from people that only see the glass half empty, only the dark clouds in the sky, and no light at the end of the tunnel. I say the same thing to all my friends: There are so many amazing, incredible people on this planet, don't waste your time on those that bring you down.

What I Learned: If you’re always wrong, you’re not in the right relationship.

hannah — Wed, 02 Jun 2010 17:21:16 +0000

The shit we'll put up with when we're in love with someone... Here are 3 ways to recognize when someone is manipulating you: 1. They make you feel guilty about everything. 2. Everything is always YOUR fault. 3. They're always right, you're always wrong. If this is going on in your relationship, find a better relationship! Seriously. There's billions of people in this world. And about half are men.

What I Learned: Insecurities Can Make Us Forget to Love Ourselves

hannah — Fri, 14 May 2010 16:08:23 +0000

Langdon you are so right! We all have insecurities, no matter how good-looking or successful. And sometimes those insecurities can get us into bad relationships. Surround yourself with positive people that love you and support you so that they can be there for you when you forget to be there for yourself. And love yourself! Self love is the most empowering thing in the world. Thank you Langdon for sharing that amazing story! Langdon hosts Langdon Nation on Hot Talk LA.

What I Learned: Watch out for the Crazies!

hannah — Wed, 05 May 2010 17:52:35 +0000

Ross Jeffries, THE Speed Seduction master tells me his bad relationship experience, and why you need to stay away from the crazies...

What I Learned: If He’s Not Genuine, He’s Probably a Player.

hannah — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 20:26:29 +0000

Genuine men are hard to find, but players, seem to be all over the place. Taylor shares with me one of her worst relationship experiences, and why you especially need to watch out for the players in disguise...

What I Learned: Sometimes Love is Not Enough.

hannah — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 14:59:54 +0000

My mother always says: You can't live without love. But unfortunately sometimes love is not enough to make a relationship work. I sat down with my sexologist Dr. Hernando Chaves (aka Dr. Sex) and he told me his worst relationship experience and what he learned. And then we ate some bananas--because they're an awesome healthy snack people! If you want to share with me your bad relationship or bad date experience, email me! hannah@sexlifeandhannah.com